Arisyong Part 3

Duuuh, baru 3x ngocok ternyata..masiiih lamaa selesainya :( but well, namnya juga arisan seneng2, yang penting bisa ketemuan sebulan sekali jg udah heppy!

Nah arisan bulan ini disepakati di Pacific Place, selain arisan anak2 juga mau sekalian ngasi kado buat gw and Bebs yang ulthanya beda sehari. So, gw feels so excited for arisan kali ini.

Awalnya kita mau nongkrongan di Fish n Co, tapi sayang disitu ndak bisa ngerokok, jadilah gw, Ijah and Epoy decided untuk melipir ke bawah ke Potato Head. Tadinya gw sempet sepakat sama Bebs mau traktir anak2, tpi berhubung mreka milihnya ke PH, trpaksa traktirannya di CANCEL!! Kalo kata Bebz, minta traktir di PH itu ga punya otaaak...hahahah, untung si Bebz complaint, so gw ikutan setujuh aja deh!

Jujur, untuk sekarang2 ini buat gw harga makanan di PH udah ga wajar lagi, maksud gw untuk harga segitu, kita bisa dapetin makanan serupa dengan porsi yang lebih besar dan tempat yang lebih enak, sekarang ini PH udah kalah pamor lah sama tempat2 happening yg lain.

Disini kita gak lama2 juga, setelah semuanya kumpul, kita mesen makan, ngobrol2, ngocok arisan (Icha yg dapet kali ini) trus kasi kado, buka kado dan pulang (gw dijemput BBP)

Sampe dirumah ngeliatin kado2nya deeh..makasiih Girls, love the presents a lot xoxox

 

 

 

What I Wore that day ;)

 Zara dark navy blazer, Doper tops, Levis Jeans, Zara Pumps, Coach Gallery Sateen Tote :)

Lazy Long Wiken ;p

Arrgh, sudah senin lagi ajaa..and its April again, geez, time flies so faast, ga berasa udah mendekati pertengahan tahun lagi (masih 2bulan sih :P) but still, perasaan kemarin gw masih berasa deg2an karena udah mau maret tgl 25, eh sekarang udah lewaat 2 mingguan aja :(

Back to routine, back to work! yeaps, kemarin baru aja long wiken untuk celebrate paskah (for those who celebrating, happy easter!) but for me, libur panjang kemarin isinya cuma leyeh2, gegoleran, pokoknya hari super duper tidak produktif :p kebetulan udarra Jakarta lagi kacaw2nya, pagi2 udah gelap, mendung, gledek2, trus siangnya tiba2 panas terik and sorenya gerimis trus malemnya hujaan..beeuuh! mau punya rencana juga males! so thats it, hari jumatnya gw cuma dikamar nonton tv, dvd, browsing (as always).

Hari sabtu, gw lumayan bisa keluar rumah seharian, siangnya lulur, creambath, massage barengan ma si BBP, akhirnya bsa pampering barengan :p kelar nyalon, kita hunting Es Oyen. Langganan gw dulu adanya di Mampang seberangnya Basmar sebelum lampu merah Duren 3, tapi denger2 sekarang mereka udah pindah, cuma gw gak tau mreka pindah kemana, iseng googling katanya mereka pindah ke Siaga, jadilah kita hunting ke Siaga modal GPS iPhone, eeeh taunya malah tambah gajelas lokasinya..pusing muter2, akhirnya kita memutuskan untuk mampir ke yang pasti2 aja di Pa'Oyen Ampera, lokasinya kalo dari lampu merah Sajam ada di sebelah kiri ngelewatin Pengadilan JakSel. 

Rambut Nyalon :p

Sampe disini, ternyata gw kecewa :( rasa es oyen nya jauuuuuuuhhh bgt sama yg di Mampang, delimanya warnanya ga menarik, alpukatnya keras, air kelapanya ga kerasa, kolang-kalingnya keras dan bahan utamanya yaitu kelapa mudanya, ternyata kelapa tua...pokoknya kecewa tingkat tinggi deh, bener2 ga sesuai pengharapan gw :( tapi berhubung kita udah smpe situ ya mau ga mau tetep dimakan juga!

Es Oyen Mampang 

Es Pa'Oyen Ampera

Beda bangeet penampilannya :(((

Kelar hunting es oyen, gw lanjut ke ambass ketemua Aida, mampir ke Aptnya dan lanjut ke Gandaria City untuk nonton Road to JakJazz..Tapi sayaang, kita sampenya kemaleman, alhasil ketinggalan ngeliat Maliq dkk :( but thank God masih sempet ngeliat Indra Lesmana and Ireng Maulana. 

 

Minggunya, Jakarta hujan dari pagi sampe malem ga brenti2, bener2 bikin lemeeeesss..so i decided untuk leyeh2 again sambil ngumpulin semangat untuk hari Senin, which is today!

So semangaat2!!! 

I Love Love Love Blazer

Blazer, hhmm..what more to say? it's my statement style, my signature-style, my "almost-everyday-workwear" style. Blazer could never go wrong with any outfit. Want a stylish, casual, boyish, pro, feminine, chic, elegant style? Blazer can do it ALL!

Although, so far I can only paired Blazer with standard work-wear such as trousers, t-tops, dresses and skirt, but I know there are lots of style can be created from it.

As I'm a bit "conventional-casual" kind of person, I only used Blazer to add "neatly" thing to my whole outfit. I haven't had the guts to try on Blazer in a different style than my usual conventional-style. But maybe one day i will...we will see :D

A glimpse of my blazer style...not much combinations tho :p

I'm sorry for the blurry-quality pictures, as most of it taken only using BB or iPhone and i took it by my self..too ashamed to ask someone to take picture of me :p

I'm thinking about trying one of these style as pictured HERE, such as blazer and shorts? color-blocking blazer? blazer and flats? blazer with maxi dress? blazer with palazzo pants? but can it fits me? is it suitable for me? do i will feel comfortable wearing it? do i will feel that the combo can really accentuates my body shape? well..im not so sure, but im willing to try someday :(

Welcome April

Telaat yaa ngucapinnya?? yeaah i knoow, ive been too lazy to post anything yesterday, although I had a bunch of "narsis" photos taken when I'm hangout with friends but i just think it doesn't have the necessity to be post in here..but whateveer, ill post it anyway!!!

All photos taken in different occasion and mostly just a chit-chat moment after office hour or lunch time. I really don't have much time to go lunch outside with friends, my office is far far far and do you know how terrible the traffic jam in Jakarta!? like HELL! One day I went out for a lunch with friend, we ate for an hour and it took me about 1.5 hour to get back to the office, it's 2.30pm already..geeezz, thank God my Boss's away *tepokjidat

So that's why, I can only meet my friend after office, that IF i can reach South Jakarta area within an hour (which ridiculously impossible) but well, terima nasib aja kali yaaa :

This one taken on lunch time at Central Park with Desong, she's on leave that day to met a Doctor (lucky you) and fortunately, i have at least 2.5 hours "escape-time" while my boss is out of town.

Its a "my b'day treat" lunch, we ate at Penang Bistro and get caramel machiatto at Starbucks for dessert. Desong gave me a super cuteee Coin Purse from Kate Spade as my bday gift..thank you darlaa..love it to the max :))

Next photo is when i met with Aida Ristany, she's my Junior High School's friend at SMP 175 and guess how long we haven't met? almost 14 years, yeaps..we totally lose contact after graduations. But because and thanks to Facebook :p (I guess they should uses "Connecting People" slogan by Nokia for it :P) we finally get connected again. There's not much really changed about her, she is still pretty and lively but one thing that obviously changed is our "age"..for sureee!! :p

Too bad kita ketemu cuma sebentar, karena (sperti yg telah dibilang sebelumnya) my office is far and plus traffic jam, jadilah kita baru bisa ketemu jam 9 malam :(

We met at The Goods Dinner - SCBD, it's a new "IT" place in town, super crowded but super worth the wait, their foods are awesome and this place is indeed cozy. We ordered and tried carpacio mushroom, chicken basket, nasi goreng kampung and mine is salmon "something" which I had to admit, there is nothing to complaint about it. They all super yummie delicacies :p (definitely a must-visit-again place)

 

Lastly is when I met with "never-get-bored" friend Hera, yeaah..we meet nearly once a week, super intense :p mostly just to have coffee, chat, or browsing online shopping websites  together..whatever it is, we will meet every time we want it and we managed to have time to do it.

Last Friday, we decided to meet at Pondok Indah Mall, its a very far place from my office, west to south, so to say! but since i can leave office early, I managed to get there by 7.30pm (still). We met and ate at the most standard resto we can think of (other word-a smoking area) at Sushi Groove. After eating, I gave her the blazer that she order through online shop and it was sent to my office.

After eating, chatting, drinking and do a little shopping :p we split up and go home :D

So the point for me is, despite my "far away-office" and my lack of time during weekdays, i managed to spare a little time to meet them all, because it's always fun to share stories with friends, listen to their story is also a very nice thing to do..for me, meeting with friends is important as long as you can manage your time efficiently and that you don't sacrifice your rest-time to hangout till midnight.

*edisitumbenwaras :D

Total Disappointment

Friendship, is a trust-based relationship, built in one common like and dislike, although sometimes friends do make mistakes, and friends do fight, and misunderstanding and arguing, but for me it’s normal…as long as we admit our mistakes, ask forgiveness and forgive friends, its normal!

But when a friend do mistake constantly and repeatedly, it’s not normal, especially when u allowed a friend thinks that ur easy to forgive and to forget, and somehow she/he tends to underestimating and assumed that u will never say anything about it, I don’t think it’s a healthy friendship anymore!

Patience’s do have limits and I have reached mine. All this time I’ve been too nice to a friend, I’ve been too patience to a friend and I’ve been always always understanding and respected a friend. But one friend takes it for granted! And for me..thats it, it ur lost!

Jangan sampai hanya karena masalah sepele yang berdasarkan “menyepelekan”, hubungan pertemanan yang udah dibangun bertahun2 jadi ilang gitu aja. All this time gw gak sadar, all this time gw selalu berfikir “emang orangnya begitu” or “yaah gpp, lucu aja” or “ga merugikan ini” but I was wrong..totally wrong! Karena kenyataannya, semakin gw denial dengan semua perbuatan dia ke gw -yang entah kenapa selalu gw anggap “gpp” itu- malah ngebikin dia ngerasa dia bisa berbuat apapun ke gw tanpa memikirkan gimana perasaan gw, dia bisa ngomong seenaknya tanpa punya perasaan “ga enak” ke gw. Misalkan keadaannya dibalik, gw pasti akan mikir 100ribu kali untuk bisa ngomong seperti itu, ngeluarin kalimat seperti itu dan bertindak seperti itu. Dan itu semua adalah karena gw selalu berusaha memikirkan bagaimana perasaan lawan bicara gw dan bagaimana reaksi mreka seandainya gw ngomong sperti itu. Tapi justru hal-hal seperti ini yang pada akhirnya malah bikin gw kebanyakan “ga enak dan ga teganya” ke temen, dan ujung2nya ada satu orang yang berfikir I’m weak and easy!

Well, it’s not going to last for long, coz I’ve made my decision and it has to ended. But I'm sure I've made the right decision and it will be a great lesson, not just only for you my friend, but also for ME!